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I need help with self harm?
Hey, i have self harmed for 4 years and i want to talk to someone my own age about it. i have a counsellor but i can't talk to him i am 15.
How to hide self-harm scars?
Im seventeen. six month ago i moved away from my family to live with my sister. Ive struggled with bulimia and depression since the age of twelve, and in my time away one thing led to another and i found some form of satisfatcion from scratching my wrist's with a key. I was nervous at the time. like i said, one thing to another and my scratching turned to cutting. Id hack at my wrist's and arm's, it made me feel better some form of relief. Now that im back i feel wicked with guilt and shame. i am 100 % over self harm and can not even believe how foolish i was,seriously, im pale and my complete wrist top of my arm is covered with deep red mark's. Ive been hiding away in long sleeved jumper's. The last thing i want to do is upset my family. Friend's, even strangers in the street stop to ask about them. Ive tried cream's,tanning and fake tan wich seriously, made my skin dark and my scar's white i know why i did it. I can understand. but im not the type of person to pour out an entire sob story to cover up me being a complete and utter idiot. this summer has been extremly hot, and i look even more suspicous covering myself up whilst sat on a spanish beach.Any sugestion's?
Should i kill my self if i stink, am a fatty, have man boobs and a tiny penis?
"how can i boost my self-esteem ?"?
umm theres not much to say im female 13 and getting ready for 8th grade i need some help any answers will helptanks < 3
Since i was little i have been bullied, now im 18...i have no self esteem and think im not good enough.?
thing is, i know in my hearts of hearts that i am a nice person and that i am beautiful, just theres something inside of me that stops me from actually feeling it.What can i do to feel better? this has been going on for too long and my self esteem has been shattered by bullying, sexual abuse from my brother, physical abuse and emotional abuse from my parents, rape and being in an abusive relationship...sorry to complain but, i guess these are the reasons why my self esteem is low. I am receiving professional help but it is doing nothing to help what so ever.i just feel as though no guy would ever want to take me on knowing i have low self esteem, guys like confident girls..and while i put on a brave face, i'm never truly comfortable in my own skin.
I gave my self a hood piercing....?
i wanna out a belly button ring in it but idk were u can buy a real silver bellybutton ring.any ideas?
Im scared of my self plz help?
im scared that i might lose control of my self b c theres a little voicet tells me to do horrible stuff ex. once my sh 1 of a stepdad insulted me while we were haveing dinner , i almost the a steak knife at him ii mean i had it in the airbut latley the voice has been gettng bigger im worried that if i lose my consciene that i would hurt alot of pplp.s. im not a crack pot im a 13 19 year old boy im not telling you my real age
Friendship and self harm?
Messed up friendship and self harming?? Please help me.?Im am a 14 year old girl.I have 3 best friends. 2 were on formspring, and i was very bored so i decided to stalk them stupid idea, I know. Im a dumbass And they found out it was me. And they were pissed off cause I had asked them if they liked people etc. And now i am scared they wont talk to me ever again. Or ever trust me again Reasonable .I have never told this to ANYONE, but Im actually really depressed most of the time, and i cant go through a single day without wishing i was skinnier, wishing I could go back in time and change stuff, wishing i wasnt so self conciese, wishing I could start my life again. No one knows this, because i apparently come off really confident and happy. I have considered cutting myself before, but now without my friends I will go through with it. Its just no matter how confident i come across, Im bleeding inside. IT sounds stupid, but its like there is a hole inside me.Im happy, then i go home, im alone, and i realise how my life is.I had a happy childhood. 2 parents, nice house, good school.Is there anyway to apolagise to my friends? I love them so much. And what should I do abut the cutting? Or at least how to avoid serious harm I refuse to see a shrink r anything. I am not telling the school guidance person. I will not tell anyone, my mom, dad, sister, no one. This is my problem, i want me to solve it.
How do i make my self wanna exercise and eat less?
how do i make my self wanna exercise and eat less? you dont no how much i wanna loose wieght this summer HOW MUCH COULD I LOOSE IN 6 WEEKS?
I'm feeling self conscious at the gym?
I'm super overweight, and I'm 17. I'm starting to go to the gym, but I get so freaked out and self conscious. Last year I went to the gym, and this woman gave me this look like she was disgusted with me, and kept looking back at me and shaking her head. Ever since then I stopped going. But I need to exercise and I have to go back to the gym. How can I stop being so self conscious?
A question about self harm?
i self harm. but heres the thing i have self harmed for like 4 years and i can't stop no matter what i do i am afraid now because am getting deeper than normal i don't wana die. ihave tried counselling but did nothing does anyone have advise to help me plz....
Is self harm attention seeking?
Just wondering.. your opinion on it all. Do you think self harm i.e slitting your wrists is attention seeking if so how deep do you think it is when someone is serious, or do you think it is a cry for help someone hoping for someone to see them so they can have help Or just a teenage phaze or something pleaseee i wan't to know your opinion cos im bored and wan't to learn stuff lol x
What constitutes "danger to self"?
I know therapists can break confidentiality if they think the client might be a danger to themselves. Are there any legal limits on what this would be? My last therapist said she would tell my family if I had any sort of thoughts at all about hurting myself, even if it was just a bad dream or something. I don't want to see a therapist now because I don't feel like I can say anything to them at all...I get dreams about self harm, and I just always seem to know how it would be possible to kill myself because my brain can make a plan for just about anything in like 2 minutes. I haven't felt suicidal in years though. I am over 18.
Self harm chat rooms for teenagers?
i self harm. ijust want to talk to someone my own age about it.am 15

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