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Survey on self injury?
1 what do you use2 what triggered it3 how old were you when you started4 did an y body ever find out5 if they did how did they react6 what is the longest you ever went without self harming7 do you still self harm8 how old were you when you stopped1 knife razor fire2 being bullied at school a family members death made it worst 3 114 only one friend who saw them when my shirt sleeve went down5 they promised not to tell as long i tried to stop6 8 9 months7 i have slip ups from time to time
Should I tell a teacher that a fellow student is self-harming and suicidal?
I don't really know the student well, but she added me on Facebook awhile ago she's two grades below me and her status makes it obvious that she cuts and is very suicidal. My friend and I are very concerned for her......Should we tell a teacher?
I usta self harm I have stopped but now I keep getting pains where my scars are?
I google'd it and it said something about internal scar tissue could someone tell me if it could be this, and if it is to be worryed about and can it be sorted out if so how?
What's your opinion on those who self harm?
I wanna hear a truthful opinion pleasee, even if it sounds mean or nasty. Thankies D
I don't have any self confidence whatsoever? I need a little guidance?
I know none of you are counselors or anything but this is the best I can do right now. I was abused in every way from a young child up until I was 14. I was also bullied in middle school. And I had an eating disorder for a couple of years. People tell me I'm beautiful, and they're so jealous because I'm tall, thin, and have a great figure blah blah blah...and I smile and say thank you but I look in the mirror and think " What the heck are they talking about?" I always feel like people are watching me and thinking mean things about me. I feel like no one is trustworthy. I'm literally afraid of people. When I go swimming I do everything I can to make sure I look good so no one judges me. I worry about every little thing I say, thinking if I say something stupid everyone will hate me. I always flinch when the person who abused me is around because I'm afraid he'll hit me again. I never see him that much though and I'm glad for that. No matter how much people tell me I'm beautiful, sweet, a good friend...whatever...I don't believe it. I can love others easily. But I don't love myself. What do I do?
Help I cut my self can anyone help me?
I am 16 now and I have cut my self for 2 years and I don't know what to do i want to stop but i cant every time I hear a sad song like my immortal or Adele I just have to get that blade and cut. i cant tell my parents about this cos they will just shout at me and tell me i am being stupid and then i will cut myself again. i was bulled for 13 years to the day because i have dyslexia and ADHD and when this happens i grab that blade an cut plz some on help me.
Is there any ways.. to get rid of self injury scars.. like creams?! please help! :(?
ive got scars.. quite alot of them which make me feel mega sh t about myself.. im trying to stop.. infact i have gone a few week without doing it which is an achievement ,... do you know any creams? or any other treatment to fade the scars.. or even get rid of them? please help if you know it really be really appreciated thanks in advance
Why are adolescent girls getting obsessed with self mutilation?
Just like the title says. I'm disgusted by this new tread of mental illness and the girls lack of responsibility for their own actions and even their unwillingness to see a doctor about their mental affliction. I don't even understand why they would prefer to hurt themselves rather than get help from a professional and become a person with a healthy mind.
How would you describe your self esteem?
Is this considered cutting? Or just some other type of self-harm?
When you scratch yourself with a razor not to the point where you bleed, but when you basically slice your skin. It doesn't leave permanent scars. My friend does this, since she's had a terrible past. She does it to calm her down, to let out the pain, the misery, and the fear. Is this still cutting?.No, it's not for attention. She used to cut years ago, but her parents found out and she got " help" for it. I wasn't supposed to know, but I saw the scars and found a journal she kept saying what she did. She stopped the actual cutting so her parents won't find out but scratches herself with the edge of a razor instead. This is a serious problem. She's even attempted suicide. I need serious answers.
Am I fat or not? I am so self conscious about my weight and I worry about it every single day.?
I am 17 years old and I am 5" 5 and I weigh between 110 112 pounds. I use to be between 107 110, what happened ? I run 2 miles a few times a week. I feel like I am fat all the time. I run a few times a week but I am the worst runner so I get out of breath quickly and I start up again and I stop. I thought my body would be use to running by now but it's not. I have big thighs because it runs in my family. I wish to be skinny like most girls where they have small thighs and look perfect. I constantly am watching everything I eat. Sometimes I only eat once a day and when I eat that once I feel as full and fat as ever. What do I do to make myself skinner and can easily exercise without getting tired so quickly. Am I fat because I can't run a full mile without stopping, what do I do? I am self conscious about my weight and how I look all the time. I just want to feel good about myself and not spend so much time worrying all the time.
Is this a form of "self harm?????"?
My friend told me something about this girl who use to take a pen to her wrist and sometimes her thighs, because her parents didn't trust her with knives and sharper objects. so she would press the pen to these places and then click the button that pushes that part of the pen that writes onto her skin and would press it along her veins. and she'd get like short term scarring from it. it would last like 1 2 days? so, would this be considered self harm?
Borderline Personality Disorder and Self-Harm?
People with BDP have urges to self harm. If John was a self harmer and said to cut himself as a way to get through hyperstress, would BDP be the ultimate cause of his self harm? With BDP, is John aware of his need to self harm or is it something he just has to do. Or does John's BDP put him at a higher risk to self harm because of his life situations, ex. stress?
Self Harm and Gay Porn?
Okay, I know this is going to sound really really weird.I'm a sixteen year old girl, and i'm kinda sexually frustrated.Late at night before I go to sleep, I feel kinda... uche 'horny' uche ??And in order to satisfy myself I need to find gay porn or pictures of self harm.I don't know why, but it get's me off.Is there something wrong with me? Something terribly wrong?ps i used to still self harm from time to time so yeah.

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