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What do you think the best self development books out there are?
So far my favorite is 7 habits of highly effective people. Want to get more good ones without wasting time and money.
Is this true? A healthy body is a significant factor in self development an helps a person develop personlity?
If yes, give me proof and defend your answer.Would love to know what you think,appreciate it.
Organization, clutter, self development, etc?
Everytime I leave home, I feel so free and I feel amazing. However whenever I return home, I find it so cluttered, and I honestly think it is hindering my personal development and growth when home. So, upon returning this morning, I have taken the liberty to re analyze things and try to get rid of useless things. Physical things are easier for me to rid of even if they remind me of different times of my life...I cannot live in memories right? I am only 20 but have developed a lot and I am proud of it, knowing my past has made me who I am. I also write a lot, and I found a lot of 'journals' going through different things in my life that used to affect me. Glancing at them amazed me at how much I have learned, grown, and changed. I no longer write about things that 'bother' me at all. I am now goal driven, focused, etc. But looking at these writings makes me feel a bit uncomfortable...These things have substance, and provide great detail into the many chapters of my life..My question is what do you think when it comes to these things? Is it a good idea to get rid of them? or to hold onto these old mostly negative feelings, for the sake of...memories?Something is telling me to not look back and get rid of this junk...The only honest reason for keeping it is if i decide to keep my writings for a biography or something...I just don't know if these things will have any purpose..or if they're bad for me
If you ever had a 'friend' who was detrimental to ur self-development(for yrs.)how did you tell them off
How did you tell them off finally?Okay, let's say u moved from your home town many yrs. ago where most of your family and friends were at the time for yrs.You made urself a pretty good life in many ways,butFELT STUCK w a " friend" you'd originally made when u were only a teen.LIfe goes on, you went to college, work of course, but it so happened this friend of yours lives in your town, and they basically are the only person you've socialized w for yrs.The problem IS everything seems to be 'on their terms', they whine all the time and u end up feeling used as a sounding board and manipulated emotionally a lot of the time, and they play the " poor lil' ol' me' card" constantly.After U REMOVE yourself finally from this troubled individual, WHERE does one find a new person to hang out with?? To go have fun with? It feels like it's hard because naturally everyone is so busy w their lives inc. yourself but all you have missing is just a nice person to chat w and go have fun
I need help with my self-development!?
I need help with my self development ?I need help with my self development ?Hey.ATM I am beginning to feel rather depressed.I feel as though I am not unique, I am not my own person and I have nothing going for me. Thus making me boring.I feel like I am alone and a loner.I feel as though I am easily influenced by others and I change my personality to fit in rather than being my own person. I feel as though I don't do anything unique or do things I came up with but rather when I do something I do it because I've done it before saw it on TV or cause my friends have already done something so if i do it it will be accepted.I am indecisive, don't know who I am, think things through to much and feel like i dont know what i want.Socially I have friends and I can make good convo but i dont get along with everyone only a few types of people but still when i am with them i feel as though they are not all that interested. I feel as though i fin dit difficult to keep their interested. I feel socially stale and wish i got more attention and more people were interested in talking with me. I have never had a girlfriend but one of the girls i liked who liked me also now is going out with another guy.I think i am becominng needy.I find it difficult to be with people 1 on 1 i feel more comfortable in group convos. Also i have toruble persuading people do stuff with me so if i wanna do it i ahve to do it alone. And when i do stuff with them i just feel like a sheep.Can anyone help me, or give me tips on how i can get back on track and find myself?
Has anyone ever used hypnosis for self-development out there?
I've always been into self development and now that the new year is here, would like to improve within different area's in my life like many other's . So was wondering if someone out there has ever seeked hypnosis to help in accomplishing your goals.
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