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Did you have severe shyness or low self esteem as a child?
I did and still am shy and have low self esteem. I don't know why i can't love myself, i am attractive and beautiful and smart, but have mental problems. As a child i thought i was no better than the worst piece of crap in the world.
Some days i feel extremely confident and others i have lots of self hatred and low self esteem what is this?
some days i feel like no 1 can touch meothers i feel like there is no way i can make it through life sober going to a job everyday from 10 6some days i feel like no 1 can touch meothers i feel like there is no way i can make it through life sober going to a job everyday from 10 6update sober meaning all types of drugs i havent had alcohol 6 years im 20 now and i dont take any drugs
My dad is the reason why I have low self esteem. Help?
He is always criticizing me. I verbally attack him, and then tell myself that I shouldn't believe anything he says. But I do believe in the things he say.He is always telling me that I am fat, even though I'm not. I'm 15, 5' 6'', and 125 pounds. At least once a week, he would tell me to go on a diet.He also tells me that I am ugly, even though people say that I look exactly like him.Moreover, my dad doesn't like the fact that I wear large, comfortable clothes at home. He wants me to wear tight, sexy clothes. I'm pretty sure my dad's a pervert because he loves looking at air brushed photos of women in magazines like Maxim.He also HATES that I prefer reading, studying, and playing the piano to partying with friends and getting drunk. My dad has offered cigarettes and a beer before. I am an introvert but he wants me to be an extrovert.This may sound surprising, but my dad is an intellectual man. He grew up in a very poor family, but studied hard and now he is successful. Anyway, he is the reason why I have low self esteem. I always keep telling him to keep his mouth shut, but he doesn't listen. Help?
How do people get low self esteem?
and does low self esteem lead to depression?
I have a low self esteem, and I think I am ugly. I don't know what to do anymore. Help?
Here is a link to look at my picture. What's your opinion? I'm not looking for compliment's I just want the truth. Im 15 Year's old for any that are wondering.s196.photobucket.com albums aa90 bellandbiscuit ?action view& current imuugly.jpg
Who here has low self esteem?
And how has it affected your life?
Is this depression? low self esteem OR am i just being selfish and unappreciative?
is this depression? low self esteem OR am i just being selfish and unappreciative? i have become extremely apathetic with life. I have good friends, a loving family and have achieved the goals i have set myself so far in life, and yet i feel nothing. i have not laughed or cried in over a year and i don't sleep anymore. i feel so incredibly jaded. I want to shake myself and appreciate moments for what they are and appreciate what i have in life but i cant do it. Sometimes i feel so empty and worn down that i can not physically talk. My friends will ask me a question and i will sit gazing and have to will myself with every strength i have to respond. I have also lost all confidence in myself.i never feel good enough and it gets me really down. i feel incredibly stupid and ugly most of the time. and it isnt based on logic because i have recently graduated with a first and i am told i am attractive. I just feel like two different people sometimes. when i am alone in my room, i feel ok and i can see the positive parts of myself but the moment i leave my room and enter the world around me i get a sinking feeling in my stomach and i feel completely and utterly inferior and i just want to curl up in a ball, get away from the world and cry. i feel at my worst when someone tries to compliment me.i can't shake this.what could be wrong? and how do i get help? or can i even get help, it seems like this is the personality i have.thanks.
How do i deal with low self esteem?
Hi there does aybody know how low self esteem can be treated. I have had this for as long as i can remember. I am an attractive lady with a beautiful little girl single mom and have a very good job with good prospects. For some reason when it comes to relationships i just cannot seem to get past my protective 'barrier' that i put up. I had a long term relationship with my little girl father who basically treated me very bad, cheated on me with anything he could and walked all over me, this lasted 10 years before i realised i had to get out. I did get a lot of confidence back in myself but i the thought of dating again sends shivers down my spine. I have had a couple of 'dates and flings' in the 3 years we have been seperate and i seem to be ok initially but then i kind of start to think that i am not worthy of this person and it will only be a matter of time before they go with someone else or hurt me. I just cannot get past this phase and it is becoming so bad for me that i literally try to avoid it alltogether now. Please can someone advise.
I have a low self esteem? can someone help me.?
please read all of this, its the only full explaination examples i can give i have a very very very low self esteem. i dont feel like im good enough for ne1 i have a boyfriend of a year and a few months, and its sad cuz sometimes we will b watching a movie or tv, or juss b walkin around the mall or something, and if we come across a few girls or juss some girl walking by, tht 2 me may look alright for herself, and i may c him galnce over, but not like check her out or stareand i will usually ask " o u think she looks pretty" or something like tht. most of the time he tells me no...ive even asked him his opinion on who the best lookin grlfrend he has been wit is..ooor who has the better body outta certain ppl or something like tht, and he always happens 2 say me..i dnt believe him cuz i think hes juss sayin tht cuz i happen 2 b with him as his grl and he doesnt want to hurt my feelings..but i think its so stupid, and im honestly shocked tht me doing tht hasnt ruined our relationship..but neways so far he has told me tht he hasnt came across no grls tht look better then me..buuut heres the catch..he alwys says i have a really hot body, maybe if we get intimate, he always feels on me and says omg ur so beautiful and gorgeous and ur body is so perfect for me, thts besides me askin him questions, and im hot and sometimes he will even say im sexy..or he will randomly check out my ass lol..and he always grabs it and says " i love it and stuff like tht..lol but ne ways...the catch is him doing tth stuff 2 me and calling me everything in the book besides " ugly" and stuff like tht ..i still fell like im nt good enuf....i also get compliments frm random ppl..good ones like ur pretty or hot etc... or ive had many ppl come up and ask for my number, random ppl while im driving down the road will keep staring at me..ive had a few guys wistle at me..etc. and sometimes my bf gets jealous or aggrivated cuz i always seem 2 have tht happen 2 me at least everyday once... But the problem is i still think im ugly, or nt good looking or nt good enuf i think this this is a big problem...and it really really gets me down and sometimes makes me upset. even if my bf says thts if i ask or out of no where he will tell me his opinion tht he thinks a girl is alright or pretty, BUT he says their nt better looking then me tho...i STILL get jealous and insecure upon myself..i really need help and i want 2 kno how 2 fix this. can some1 plz give me some advice tips or websites or SOMETHING 2 help me out w this problem plz. i wuld really appreciate it.
I have extremely low self esteem?
The only reason I'm not on diet pills or throwing up or something is because I'd get caught. I know I would.Is there anything i can do to raise my self esteem, as well an maybe some yoga poses and exercises I can do to get rid of tummy fat and thigh fat and hip fat.I know this is kind of a mixed question but I don't really know what to do. I've also been feeling rather depressed. Even the stupid spell check thing on here makes me feel like a failure.
Have you ever overcome very low self-esteem? I need help?
How did you do it? How long did it take you? Is it even possible? Any feedback would be greatly appreciated.
Acne >> Low self-esteem :(?
Im only 13 and I've been breaking out alot since last year 7th grade . My skin breaks out a lot in the T zone area, especially my chin. I tried Acnefree and Neutrogena but sadly those cleansers just made it even worse Since it's the summer right now, I thought by getting a break and not stressing much from school would make my skin clearer. I was wrong. My skin has NOT improved, instead its gotten worse than before I cant help touching picking on my face even though i know it would just make it worse.. I've been avoiding meeting friends in public, going to the mall, etc because i feel like a monster with all this acne on my face btw my skin is really oily
Really Low Self Esteem?
I don't really know if I do or not but I just feel really down all the time. Its been getting worse and worse to the point that I just hate myself. Everyones' so sick of hearing me talk about this which makes me even more sad. My parents don't even listen to a work I say, And if I did ask them anything they would tell all there friends and then everyone I know would treat me differently. Its gotten bad to when my friend used to say " Your short" to me I would always get mad as her and we would laugh too now when she says " your short" I just sigh and don't say anything. I have been taking in a lot of verbal and physical abuse mostly verbal by people no names but I try to just make it go in ear and out the other but I just feel sad and my heart just hurts even more. I don't cry about it because then I would get yelled at. And I am close to being neglected in my family. I dunno if I'm really just depressed or if I have really super low self esteem....i don't know....help is appreciated.....
Help - Low self esteem?
I am going on an overseas tour soon and have discovered all the girls that are going are skinny. Being self conscience and over weight I am worried about how I will look to others but don't want this to happen as this truly is the trip of a lifetime How do I not let this bother me?
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