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Small boobs and low self esteem?
so every day i get at least 1 comment on my small 32a boobs and i cant take it anymore. it makes me feel like crap, and then me feeling bad about myself makes my boyfriend feel bad because i always put myself down.its come to the point where so many people comment on it i actually think i look like a boy when i look in the mirror, and i have cut myself. i regret it, but i have, and i really just want to be happy with the way i am, but i find it hard to with all the people making comments. one person calls me fried eggs on a daily basis, and for example the other day i accidentally hit myself in the chest and i said 'ow my boob' and about 3 people turned round and said 'what boobs'. people actually call me titless every day and its horrible.i kind of felt a bit better when i started looking on the internet on what to do and i know that hayley williams has a small chest and is still absoloutely gorgeous, and she is one of my idols but people still get me down every day and i just dont even want to be alive sometimes because of the way people make me feel.how can i make myself more confident about this and be happy?
How to get out of this, big mistake and low self esteem?
I'm a short girl, maybe 4'8 or 4'9''. I am VERY self conscious about my height. I wear 2 3 inch shoes that are disguised to look like it's not giving me height elevator shoes. In the summer I usually wear 2 3 inch sandals or flipflops. I can't even be barefoot around people , so I can't go swimming or do anything that involves taking off your shoes to risk my embarrassing height, and looking like a liar cuz I never don't look 2 3 inches taller than I am. What can I do to reverse this somehow...? Or are there any tricks to look tall without height increasing footwear? I'm 15 and my Dr. says I can no longer grow. I'm not deformed and its just my genetics.Nope, sorry. Judy and Charlie Is leaving stupid answers the new way to become a " Top Contributer" ? Spare me. Judy and Charlie Is leaving stupid answers the new way to become a " Top Contributer" ? Spare me. Judy and Charlie Is leaving stupid answers the new way to become a " Top Contributer" ? Spare me.
Whats the difference between depression and low self esteem?
I've been feeling pretty terrible for the last few months. On and off since I could remember 8th grade . I've always suffered with low self esteem . But now for the first time I can say I am beautiful and mean it. But I do have doubts with how I am as a person. I feel like since I don't really do much, haven't gotten my ged yet, and had a pretty rough childhood people won't like me. When I was a kid the few friends I had couldn't handle my low self esteem and disowned me. And I never really felt like my family was there for me. So I have trust issues. Right now I feel sad, used, manipulated, worthless, and unloveable. I don't know if its low self esteem, depression, or both. Could use some advice on how to boost my mood. Also what's the difference from the two, I'm not so clear on it.
I have lost my confidence, very low self esteem, feel irritable around people?
I have been unemployed for about 5months, I have lost contact with friends and just recently split up with my boyfriend of 3years. I feel very low, alone, I constantly have bad negitive thoughts about myself which makes me feel vunerable and irritable around others.I almost try and avoid people I know, I cant seem to concentrate when speaking to people, I cannot look people in eyes which leads to me feeling like an utter freak. I think I have developed a bad social phobia, I tryed speaking to my GP about it but they are useless, I sometimes feel like giving up altogether and locking myself in my bedroom for weeks on end. I dont know how to get myself back on track and feeling happy & positive. Anyone else felt this way?
I feel so fat, low self esteem....?
Ok so here's the deal... I used to go to the gym fairly regularly, like 3 times a week. And I'd run 5 miles everything and i did other stuff too. And i was eating verg well. But now, it's been about 7 months since I have been in the habit and I've started to shed muscle and gain fat. Now, I'm not HUGE but my thighs are kinda big. I'm just very self conscious and i can't help but think I'm gross. I won't go out because I don't wanna put on my jeans. I wear leggings around my house but I hate wearing even yoga pants outside This " flubby ness" that has taken over my body is making me hate myself I just can't seem to get myself back at the gym. And now I'm eating junk food and I've begun to smoke a little ... I just need some advice on how to get me back on track
Help very low self esteem?
Help i have trouble talking to girls or looking at them straight on because i have a gap in my 2 front teeth. I've had girls who said i would look at whole lot better if only the gap was gone.I hate smiling, i never frownbut when im asked to take a picture i never ever show my teeth. Tell me that wouldn't lower ur self esteem.Dont even get me started with my mom, saying i look goodBS I dont really know how anyone could help me i guess im just looking for advice.
My low self esteem makes me feel terrible what can i do?
I have really low self esteem. I come from a great family with parents who love me and lots of siblings I'm the oldest of 5 . But I was bullied a lot as a kid and it made me feel worthless. I'm 14 now but I stillsuffer from thefeelingsof low selfesteem and worthlessness and extremely poor body image. I feel like I am really ugly and that makes me really desperate. The thing is that now s lot of guys, from old men to teen age guys like me. I stillfeel reallyuglyinsidebut forsomereason they are attracted to me. I have a really really hard time saying no to guys because I feel so ugly that I am worried that a guy may never be interested in me again.IfI go somewhere and not even one guy stares at me or asks me for my number or starts hitting on me i feel totally ugly and want to cry. My self esteem is totally dependant on guys wanting me sexually which i know is very unhealthy. But i need then to want me to feel like someone SOMEONE finds me attractive. I don't know how to stop thinking this or how to get out of this cycle of needing attention from guys just to feel even the least bit happy. Somebody help.
I have low self esteem and I really want to boost it.?
I'm 18 and at University, so I'm doing well for myself. I wouldn't say I'm ugly at all. I mean I'm not going to be winning any competitions soon, but I'm not the worst looking girl...perhaps a bit ordinary looking though. I'm not weighty either about 8st, but I am under 5ft so it looks bigger on me ...I'm not skinny, my dr has expressed I could lose a few pounds, but the love handles don't stop me being on the hockey team. I was a fat child and was picked on at school a lot, but I overcame it. I was the class clown, so my personality made up for my lack of looks and my big weight...then I lost 5 stone which I was pleased about. I started making an effort with my appearance, men started to notice me and my confidence went sky high. But I'd still lie in bed at night obsessing with how I could be better and I would look at women on the internet and hate myself more because they were beautiful...I even started getting abusive towards myself and others. Then I met my current boyfriend who is 10 years older and I felt he liked me for me, rather than my looks. He had a more mature look on relationships, and it made me feel wanted again, as I have been used over the years. Recently though my insecurities have come back, and even though I seem jokey, I secretly hate my face, hair, body, clothes, mind and it's distancing me from my boyfriend. I constantly ask him his type of girl and desperately find matches to my own looks there are none I always worry he looks at other women and compares me and I know he liked a model site on fb and it cut me up...because thew women are so beautiful and sexy I couldn't be or feel like that. I want to boost my confidence up because I'm really low about everything.
Iv'e never stopped being crippled by my low self esteem?
At age ten I remember being the girl in school everyone thought was weird. I had this huge explosion of curly black hair, gawky and small, and used to bite my tormentors the bullies. Thats right bit them. Like an animal. As such my name at school was " freak" , " vampire" ect. In high school things were about the same. I developed much later and was always self conscious. Mercifully, I had good skin like a child's skin until about fifteen. When my skin became olive and rougher. I started having to use compact powder to prevent shiny shiny nose syndrome. I went through a bizarre period at ages sixteen to seventeen, I lived on my own. I was very lonely. I had no real friends. I let a guy I liked walk all over me. blah blah. In high school I hid most of the time in the school toilets at lunch time for the whole year it took me to meet friends who decided my " weirdness" was " cool" and " unique." I became more out going, but I am still very shy and s little anti social, although I love to go out some nights and do a huge bender, then suddenly become quieter again. I remember a period where I refused to change or wash my favorite jeans for months. My sister nicknamed me that fond old nickname " freak." Which she still calls me despite the fact I am now grown up. I'm nineteen Because just about everyone and their aunt in primary and high school refered to me as a " freak" I hate the name. They were quite cruel. I have very little self confidence because I began to hate what everybody else saw, the " freak" who was shy. I sleep around and it effects my emotional life very badly. I'm often lonely and I drink way too much. The sleeping around thing concerns me because ultimately I'd like to prove to that boy who first used me for sex, and mostly myself that I am of value. How can I break the cycle of self hatred? I feel like I could get closer to my goal of being a good artist and finding a mate and having a kid to teach the right things to one day If I loved myself first. Writing this made me cry because I feel sorry for that child.You know what, the name philip sucks. Sounds like a tiny man without a dick. If I was making it up, I wouldnt have a psychological scar that I needed help with. Its all true.
Please help,i have very low self esteem?
Please help me,i have really low self esteem,when i talk with someone,i always make mistake and they laugh at me.nowdays i am not able to talk with anyone.i forget how to talk with people.how to study.everrything...plz help me i will really appreciate it...i am 16 years old boy...plz help
We have very low self esteem?
A friend and I have very low self esteem, because another friend of ours has a MODEL BODY. She has the nicest curve I have ever seen, has nice legs, and has a decent sized chest not small like mine and butt I'm flat . She gets all of the guys' attention, and makes my close friend and I feel unattractive.Me and my friend have bangs because we feel like we want to hide our face. This model friend of ours can probably wear the ugliest clothes and still look " hot" in them. She always wears make up, and without it she doesn't look great.So my friend and I don't want to feel prettier by covering up our natural beauty with make up I believe that we are pretty , but how do we appreciate our bodies?I'm thin but don't have a nice curve, and am flat. My friend thinks she's fat, but she's not. She's just a little overweight but I wouldn't consider her chubby either. I'm average I guess.How do we feel more confident about ourselves?
I have very low self Esteem. And I feel very insecure?
I'm a sophomore in highschool. About 7 grade I gained a lot of weight, I never really got picked on, but I was always called a " Tom boy" I hated it. The summer of 7 grade I started exercising and eating healthier. I was 185 pounds edging 190. I lost a good bit. When I started 8th grade I was about 145 5'3 . Eh I thought I did good. Back a while ago I always wore my hair in a pony tail. Never down or anything, maybe for picturesOr a special occasion. When I started 10th grade, I started to snap out of it, wear my hair down, makeup. I play basketball. I love it, the first day of practice I walked into my old school. I haven't seen those people in years. As I picked up a ball I heard one of the girls go to another girl " hey she finally looks like a girl" that hurt. A lot. I still think about it. 9th grade I really got picked on. I just don't know anymore. Everytime I look at other people that are prettier then me I always get down. It just reallyHurts. A lot. I feel like I'm not good enough, I try to be. Gahh. What should I do?
What to do about a low self-esteem?
I feel like the ugliest person in the world. I feel like nothing I do is right. I feel like I don't have many friends and some people hate me. I feel depressed and sad. I have bad teen acne all over my forehead. I can never get 100 % on anything. I'm always one of the last people to get a partner and end up being in a group of 3. I can't get my hair to look pretty. I have no idea what to do with my life and I am just sad. What should I do? Tips on beauty and confidence. list any websites that may help.
Really low self-esteem, too afraid to be myself, anxious and sad...?
For almost half a year I've been having on and off again sessions of almost a depression where I have even less self esteem, feel overly anxious and tired, and just all around upset. I've had days where I would wake up crying and spend the rest of the day sleeping. My mom says it's because of my period, because these conditions do seem to get worse around the time of my period, but they become present at the most random of time periods. The chunks of time usually last around 2 5 days. I've also noticed that this happened since I stopped being myself around others, if that makes sense. I guess it's a side effect of being a teenager, but I feel like I can't be myself around others because they'll think I'm weird, I'll annoy them in some way, or I'll upset them. I find myself trying to make others happy, but neglect my happiness in the process. I just really want to know if anyone, preferably another teen girl, that is going through the same thing or something similar and has some advice or " cure" to rid myself of these feelings. My mom keeps telling me to get a hobby or make new friends, but she doesn't really understand how hard that is for me lol. Could all this come down to my low confidence levels, or a mental problem, or what? Any ideas to help me? Thanks
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