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Question: Is this a acceptable definition of self-pity?
(Posted by: Ho'omaluhia on 2009-10-14 00:17:35)
"Self- pity is the psychological state of mind of an individual in perceived adverse situations who has not accepted the situation and does not have the confidence nor ability to cope with it. It is characterized by a person's belief that he or she is the victim of events and is therefore deserving of condolence. Self- pity is generally regarded as a negative emotion in that it does not generally help deal with adverse situations. However, in a social context, it may result in either the offering of sympathy or advice. Self- pity may be considered normal, and in certain circumstances healthy, so long as it is transitory and leads to either acceptance or a determination to change the situation. " I was abused and assault physically and emotionally for years by the hands of my wife's family. We have moved out and now want justice but the police who investigated are friends of the family so nothing done. I am depressed and angry at this...does this sound like self- pity? |
