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Question: How can i built self confidence?

(Posted by: lauren h on 2008-09-03 16:58:00)

I have extremely low self- confidence and self- esteem. Now im 20 years old. When I was growing up, my mom was very strict and it did affect my confidence and low self esteem. How can I built and strength my confidence and have high esteem? I was never being myself. When I was a child, my mom always put me down and taught me that i should care on what other people think of me and i did not have a happy childhood life. it hurts alot when she does that. I want to change to a self confidence and a happy person. Please help me!!

Posted by: wombat.moose on 2008-09-03, 17:08:05

You are 20 years old now, your mother doesnt have as much control over you, she cant tell you who to be or what to do with yourself anymore, you have to think about what you want out of life and how you want to go about doing it, you are now in control of your image and everything about yourself, even if the past is hard to let go, you dont have to dwell on it, you need to move ahead and be yourself, you dont have care about what other think because you are not there to please them you are living to please yoursef and to make yourself happy. go out and buy yourself clothes that YOU like, cut your hair in the hairstyle that YOU like, look in the mirror and tell yourself that your worth it until it sinks in, because you are not less worthy than anyone else and you deserve to be you.

Posted by: ? on 2008-09-03, 17:13:07

Well, i would like you to be who you are, period!!!!. be confident to yourself. Everyone is the same, no matter what class.