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Question: Things that boost self esteem/confidence?

(Posted by: Emmalee K on 2008-08-27 20:06:47)

I just need a few boosters to make myself for better about myself.

Posted by: shiney on 2008-08-27, 20:25:11

Well for me i battled self esteem problems for many years. they're many things you can do 1. you can look in the mirror and look at your flaws and look at the positive stuff about you, when you come across a flaw like maybe it's your weight try to set a goal on how to lose weight and watch what you eat and you'll start losing weight and that flaw will soon disappear but don't forget the positive stuff their must be something you like about yourself and try to focus or enhance that feature 2. do a hobby something your good at so you can show your talent or do something proactive like help your family or community in some way to make yourself feel useful.

Posted by: Cee on 2008-08-27, 20:10:09

New hair... always does the trick for me ;) do something different or get it cut in a cute style... also perfume! if you can smell yourself smellin good then you know everyone does too!

Posted by: souper.gloo on 2008-08-27, 20:10:20

Get a make-over .. don't look into mirrors constantly .. pamper yourself with massages, tans, manicures, etc. Learn to love yourself for who you are!

Posted by: Black Cat on 2008-08-27, 20:10:28

I find that if I feel in good in what I am wearing, have my hair done etc, it is easier to feel good about myself. When I am feeling low I try to hang out with close friends and have a laugh, it really helps.

Posted by: refuse2lose_2006 on 2008-08-27, 20:10:33

Idk, but I would like to know as well

Posted by: jesse on 2008-08-27, 20:11:06

Find things that you enjoy doing and are good at. If you find things to do that interest you and focus on those, this should help your confidence and self esteem. stay away from people who are negative, or demean you. if it's things from the past or issues you have not dealt with, seek councelling and it should help you over come low self esteem and boost your confidence

Posted by: Secret Agent L on 2008-08-27, 20:11:06

Nice clothing! or just not caring what other people think!....or you could just take over tha human race;that alwayz helpz!

Posted by: scootchover on 2008-08-27, 20:12:51

1. look in a full length mirror 2. stand up straight -- focus on your posture 3. look yourself directly in the eye and have a little chat now go practice with your friend, a teacher, the checker at the market. it's easier than you think -- the biggest factor is over coming your fears. always, look people directly in the eye when speaking with each other and smile! good luck!

Posted by: yousee? on 2008-08-27, 20:13:35

Get your hair, make up, nails, anything that would make yourself look your best. Whenever you feel down, look at you best quality about yourself, like your hair, eyes, lips, and keep telling yourself it's an amazing quality. Focus on that, and not your flaws.

Posted by: Unknown on 2008-08-27, 20:16:32

1. a piercing or tattoo 2. a new wardrobe 3. a new attiude 4. a NEW hair cut 5. A NEW YOU (hope i helped hun ... i need advice myself lol ...)

Posted by: dorothy on 2008-08-28, 07:44:08

Think positive! just for a moment when u feel melting... try to think postive.. just for the moment. and you'll see you will feel confident. but just for the moment. haha